If your co-parent is constantly failing to follow the parenting time arrangement ordered by the court, the law doesn’t treat it lightly. Parenting time orders are not suggestions. They are legally binding directives designed to protect each parent’s relationship with the child. When one parent interferes, it can quickly shift from frustrating to legally actionable.
Interference with parenting time orders isn’t always dramatic. It often shows up in subtle but repeated behaviors, such as:
- Refusing to follow the parenting schedule
- Constantly showing up late or not at all for exchanges
- “Forgetting” scheduled visitation dates
- Emotional manipulation or coercive conduct affecting the child’s relationship with the other parent
Even if they claim it’s just a misunderstanding, courts can view repeated disruptions as intentional interference and take action. The judge may respond with make-up parenting time, modifications to the parenting plan or legal decision-making authority or even contempt of court findings.
What should you do if it’s happening to you?
If you’re in such a situation, try resolving the issue amicably through dialogue. Talk to your co-parent about their behavior, keeping the tone factual and calm. Arizona family courts expect parents to make a genuine effort to communicate before escalating a dispute.
Meanwhile, document everything. Keep a detailed record of all custody violations. Screenshots, calendars and text messages can all become important evidence if the matter ends up in court. It’s also important to obey the existing court orders. Avoid responding in kind, even if you feel justified. It may weaken your position down the road.
Assert your parental rights with confidence
You don’t have to navigate this alone. It can be overwhelming, both legally and emotionally. Seeking informed legal guidance can help you take charge of the situation and protect your relationship with your child.